As a newbie myself I will contribute my thoughts.... When I came I had a modest 50 count humi with MAYBE 20 smokes in it, most of them bought at a HUGE discount from a place going out of business, 50 and 25% of retail is all I paid. I got in on the NST and got pretty much bombed by reggiebuckeye. He said to send only 5 but sent 9 back all much higher end sticks than i sent.
This was taken by me a 2 things, 1 we are both fans of THE Ohio State University and thus i thought maybe i got a bit of preferential treatment. This was a great gesture! Second I thought it was probably just a welcome kind of thing and as stated previously, to help a new guy who probably has a pretty small collection.
I then got in on the
ruined Humi Thread and I sent out 3 smokes, this time it kinda struck me as i thought 3 smokes was a pretty nice gesture, but I was SMALL potatoes compared to others, sending 5, 10, 15 smokes to this guy.
Then I began noticing on the Noob PIF, and Noob NST that what older guys were sending i just could not compete with. I don't have the stock to take a 5 stick hit every trade. This was frustrating for a few reasons, 1 I felt like a prick when I had to qualify a guy by saying "I am not gonna be able to send 10 stick back like other guys do". Second i questioned whether I should even participate at that point as I felt that I didn't "hold up" to the standard.
This thread has made me feel better, and I see nothing wrong with sending a new guy 6-7 sticks to his 5, I am MORE than happy to take a 1-2 stick hit to make a guy feel welcome, and IF I found another OSU fan, or someone with a similar interest (guitars, cars, formula 1) I might send them 8-10 on a SPECIFIC trade for a SPECIFIC reason. But I cannot just blanket send 10 smokes for no reason.
I have been blessed thus far and have basically (not intentionally) tripled my smoke count, and I WANT to contribute in the spirit of Bobarian, ReggieBuckeye, Jaymz, and others, but I do think it is a slippery slope (and this time in a bad way) when the STANDARD seems to be doubling your half of the trade just because your an established member.
This is going to be my philosophy as a now "older" member, and I use the word "Older" lightly. I will get involved with the NST with the intention of sending back prolly at least 1 prolly 2 more sticks then i receive, and in most cases a higher quality set of sticks. I think any new smoker will be happy to send 5 sticks valuing roughly 3-5 dollars per stick and receive 6-7 he hasn't had valuing 5-10 dollars each.
I should state now that i KNOW this is not about money it is just the easiest denominator when trying to explain quality i suppose. In this way he is exposed to NEW sticks, gets a welcoming "gift", and can begin to feel some of the generosity this forums offers.
I would suggest to the member who have the inventory, funding, or desire to send out and extra 10-20 sticks a month, make some creative contests for the noobs with cigar related topics, in this way your still able to contribute to the level you want to , but it is also educational and equal opportunity. In this way a noob s not going to be saying "Man i screwed getting hooked up with bigben I wish i would have gotten someone else who would have sent me 5 boxes of OpusX instead of this mixed bag of 7 smokes"
Ok I am done rambling!!!!